tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7348240626909863719.post1304862605789780469..comments2024-03-06T22:00:22.083-05:00Comments on Questions from a Ewe: Harassment and Bullying in the ChurchQuestions from a Ewehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06505411853075740722noreply@blogger.comBlogger51125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7348240626909863719.post-83766352840728018992019-07-10T11:31:02.261-04:002019-07-10T11:31:02.261-04:00The above is about Fr Daniel Barica of Sts Simon a...The above is about Fr Daniel Barica of Sts Simon and Jude in Huntington Beach, CA. Google his name to see a lot more. Looks like a lot of bullying going on. With all the abuse problems out there, the bishops need to stop protecting priests like this. The Orange County Diocese own facebook account even has reviews from upset people wanting Barica removed, posted on July 9 and 13, 2018.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7348240626909863719.post-21738271947403047832019-06-08T11:21:24.089-04:002019-06-08T11:21:24.089-04:00Hold on, if Father Rusty knows money was taken by ...Hold on, if Father Rusty knows money was taken by Father Daniel then Father Lackie has to know and is also protecting him. Hiding this and Santa Barbara fighting back is lying to us about his past. Anonymous is correct, Father Daniel is only as powerful as Father Lackie and every parish donor and enabler who does not do something. I got the May 31 parish email with Provincial Gaa promising Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7348240626909863719.post-36543812363426715072019-03-10T12:25:28.131-04:002019-03-10T12:25:28.131-04:00thank you I had a Preist just last week I have foo...thank you I had a Preist just last week I have food and environmental allergies He insistest I sinned Last week and needed to go into confessional with him at am a military vet and women of over fifty he argued with me I had sinned because I missed mass what a hoax he tried to out talk out argue and dominate me by saying I had missed mass ai almost said your fellow work coligues need t<br />O Former Fish Butcherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12513825617816827299noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7348240626909863719.post-69536555222411750822018-08-01T14:18:38.273-04:002018-08-01T14:18:38.273-04:00Just reading this shows how dysfunctional this org...Just reading this shows how dysfunctional this organisation is ...the toll on the mental health of churchgoers some are vulnerable to abuse. <br /><br />The church needs a complete transformation...perhaps it will over the next few years if it shatters as a result of allegations and a clear light shone on itAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7348240626909863719.post-20652696129644897422018-07-13T03:09:03.636-04:002018-07-13T03:09:03.636-04:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Adelehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05839957638126841440noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7348240626909863719.post-21660901854960867372018-07-10T23:24:38.339-04:002018-07-10T23:24:38.339-04:00There are negligence laws in every state and a Fed...There are negligence laws in every state and a Federal Volunteer Protection Act, some of which may apply if a non-profit causes harm to a volunteer. I was subject to harm (a horrific migraine) as a result of a youth minister who called me outside of parish grounds from his personal cell to mine about a project already approved by the pastor in writing that he pressured me NOT to do. I have never Glynnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04067637169644746887noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7348240626909863719.post-76972835100440805202018-06-01T21:21:42.776-04:002018-06-01T21:21:42.776-04:00Hello, nice to meet you! I am a theologian and a c...Hello, nice to meet you! I am a theologian and a church worker (Sunday school) at an Anglican church in Canada. I have worked at the church more than 1 year, but my job position has been questioned since the end of April. Church committee members insisted that it has been terminated. I expect that moral harassment is behind this story. I am a theologian, so I am researching "harassment in Cecilnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7348240626909863719.post-55683405527207102802018-04-09T04:07:41.215-04:002018-04-09T04:07:41.215-04:00You are right about some priest we have this Spani...You are right about some priest we have this Spanish speaking priest since he came to our parish ,he is destroying instead of building a better parish ,he is not the pastor , he is a bully and is using the church ,the parishioners to get rich he lies steals, all the time , he knows who to manipulate, the poor, people uneducated , that does not speak English, and is always talking bad about our Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7348240626909863719.post-39041686427778142062018-04-03T15:15:58.839-04:002018-04-03T15:15:58.839-04:00I belong to a parish like this. Im a new convert. ...I belong to a parish like this. Im a new convert. I see SO much going on, I had to pray, to make sure what I saw was real. It is. I am currently being shunned, and I STILL dont know why. Because Im an actual Catholic, I think. Ive been yelled at by Father, one if hus admin people, and a new girl. Ive noticed people who are afraid of him, have not much self-confidence. HUGE parish, and he won'Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7348240626909863719.post-25619132434059766962018-04-03T14:58:15.255-04:002018-04-03T14:58:15.255-04:00Im getting the cold shoulder right now. Father, on...Im getting the cold shoulder right now. Father, one of his admin people, and a new parishioner have tried it. Mind you, Ive done some heavy duty praying in this regard. It seriously hurt at first, becausevI had no clue what I have done. Still do not. Its actually funny, bc I KNOW who is in charge. And I love Holy Mother SO much. You do know, people like this usually recognize when someone is a Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7348240626909863719.post-67864476252082060772018-01-14T05:50:38.437-05:002018-01-14T05:50:38.437-05:00For 5 years, I taught law in a law school in Banga...For 5 years, I taught law in a law school in Bangalore, India which was run by the Church. <br />Born a protestant, I was never a regular church-goer. But<br />I had great respect for the priests at the time I took up that job. I didnt know that some of them are such manipulative psychopaths who wouldnt stick at anything. They harassed me, 'moulded'me and I did not mind beacuse they did A D Shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13433272368742692917noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7348240626909863719.post-3023272669640418542017-12-01T11:04:19.930-05:002017-12-01T11:04:19.930-05:00I have worked at the same catholic church for 25yr...I have worked at the same catholic church for 25yrs during that time there have been 14 priest of those there was only 1 that I would consider priest in every sense of the word and the rest decided around their 50's to become priest all of them having been in the business world at one time or another the first had been in the banking business no one liked him much but I tried to accept all Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7348240626909863719.post-46094767522619688422017-11-19T15:50:36.011-05:002017-11-19T15:50:36.011-05:00You would think after the Academy winner for best ...You would think after the Academy winner for best picture Spotlight, priest abuse would not be covered up anymore. What Bill Cosby, Kevin Spacey and Harvey Weinstein did was so wrong. They took advantage of the fear people have to report them. I read abuse does not have to be sexual to be wrong. So do not let a priest take advantage of your fear of reporting him for bullying, harassing, shunning,Concernedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07854411451536221289noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7348240626909863719.post-49041103924335823852017-11-19T15:48:58.196-05:002017-11-19T15:48:58.196-05:00You would think after the Academy winner for best ...You would think after the Academy winner for best picture Spotlight, priest abuse would not be covered up anymore. What Bill Cosby, Kevin Spacey and Harvey Weinstein did was so wrong. They took advantage of the fear people have to report them. I read abuse does not have to be sexual to be wrong. So do not let a priest take advantage of your fear of reporting him for bullying, harassing, shunning,Concernedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07854411451536221289noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7348240626909863719.post-64217724168859275392017-09-01T16:14:36.981-04:002017-09-01T16:14:36.981-04:00Someone told me things about this church that kind...Someone told me things about this church that kind of bothered me. She said one of her girlfriends goes to church at Simon & Jude and has invited her to come over to meet this priest Daniel Barica. Her friend said he goes to her house on Lake Street often for dinner. This person does not go to that church so she wanted to know which one it was. Her girlfriend told her there are 2 priests Catholic Parenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15317107802298957689noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7348240626909863719.post-14349917573544562632017-08-05T19:19:09.579-04:002017-08-05T19:19:09.579-04:00What about priests who bully? Pope Francis needs t...What about priests who bully? Pope Francis needs to stop this problem too. These articles might help you be brave enough to say something at your church about narcissistic and abusive priests:<br />http://parishhope.com/healing/articles/OpenLetter.shtml<br />http://parishhope.com/healing/articles/CanonLaws.shtml<br /><br />At St. Simon and Jude in Huntington Beach, CA, people tiptoe around the Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7348240626909863719.post-67687899352125897482017-07-15T13:34:59.560-04:002017-07-15T13:34:59.560-04:00I am being harassed by a pastor. He has recruited ...I am being harassed by a pastor. He has recruited others priests to harass me, too. He slandered my name using my most private and confidential information. I am shunned by most in the church as they don't know the man who wears the collar with disgrace. The diocese has taken no action as it is swept under the rug. This behavior has been going on for years. Who can put a stop to this Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7348240626909863719.post-80497920293335597182017-04-28T00:42:10.125-04:002017-04-28T00:42:10.125-04:00I am a volunteer DRE and for the last few months m...I am a volunteer DRE and for the last few months my priest has spoken down to me, scolded me like a child, accused me of being contaminated by another volunteer, has said I only think negatively, he doesn't like things that I do including the way I dress for Mass. I was ill and was not able to attend Holy Week and he even told me that I should have been there especially on Easter Vigil. Hurt and confusedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09721383951854664515noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7348240626909863719.post-77899434241624946492017-03-12T13:35:45.374-04:002017-03-12T13:35:45.374-04:00Than you, Ewe, for your brilliant analysis of the ...Than you, Ewe, for your brilliant analysis of the unspoken and generally unknown non-sexual abuse/sins of CC clergy and pastoral staff. I was born Catholic and have 27 years of formal Catholic school education (from kindergarten to Ph.D. level) and have just recently become a victim of several forms of the abuse you mentioned. Just after I said good morning to him, our pastor screamed at me, LilyGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05889054364189580742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7348240626909863719.post-87117560442862140182017-01-05T18:20:13.395-05:002017-01-05T18:20:13.395-05:00This talks about abysmal behavior by Franciscan Da...This talks about abysmal behavior by Franciscan Daniel Barica. Is this the pastor of St. Simon and Jude in Huntington Beach, CA?<br />http://roomwithapew.weebly.com/blog/our-mirror-selves<br /><br />This talks about his sexual energy. Was he finally removed?<br />http://theworthyadversary.com/3704-ssj-groomingAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7348240626909863719.post-52818558138638724032016-12-13T10:35:18.178-05:002016-12-13T10:35:18.178-05:00I have a question.....I have worked for this Churc...I have a question.....I have worked for this Church for over 4 years...sense the new Church Council has been elected, the new Council president has complained about me and talked about me non stop. This person has even told lies on me. I love my job and I do not want to quit but every time I turn around it is always something. The other Council member tell me to please don't leave they love Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7348240626909863719.post-56717745805564396682016-12-08T23:58:44.994-05:002016-12-08T23:58:44.994-05:00The Roman church is not the only one to suffer fro...The Roman church is not the only one to suffer from clergy who bully. My family is dealing with bullying by Robert H. Malm, rector of Grace Episcopal Church in Alexandria VA, The latter has directed parish staff and lay leaders to shun us.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7348240626909863719.post-39347399047193457202016-11-01T21:47:56.340-04:002016-11-01T21:47:56.340-04:00Not leaving the faith. Resisting. Defending the Ch...Not leaving the faith. Resisting. Defending the Church against these attacks. Attending more traditional parishes, where reverence feeds the soul to worship deeply and fully.Blessinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05162802918371489472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7348240626909863719.post-36624295707343878062016-11-01T21:46:44.329-04:002016-11-01T21:46:44.329-04:00There was a recent case of a priest and his questi...There was a recent case of a priest and his questionable activities with his partner. The Church as a whole, got together, hired an investigator, had a formal investigation done and presented it to the Diocese. The issue and pastor were addressed if I recall correctly. I cannot remember the names in the particular case, Mike Voris may have reported on it?<br /><br />Maybe this is possible for youBlessinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05162802918371489472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7348240626909863719.post-86825961660352938692016-11-01T21:40:31.951-04:002016-11-01T21:40:31.951-04:00As valid as your claim is, I beg you to reconsider...As valid as your claim is, I beg you to reconsider <br />"this church" as a whole as to blame. Remember we are the Body of Christ and those whom are not living and practicing the Gospel are tearing grievous wounds into the Body of Christ. We, as a whole suffer as does Christ Himself...it wounds Him deeply. So please, place your faith squarely on HIM and HIM alone not the administrators,Blessinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05162802918371489472noreply@blogger.com